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Why are soul ties so dangerous?

First let’s define what a soul tie is.  A soul tie is two souls being joined together.  A soul tie can be formed through sex or through a close relationship or friendship.  Soul ties can turn dangerous depending on who it’s formed with.  Spirits will transfer from one person to the other.  Have you ever caught yourself saying things they say? Or all of a sudden eating foods that they normally like?  Soul tie.  A soul tie can be used to bring demonic activity into your life.  I recently had to step away from face book and    due to this particular reason.  The spirits that transferred during fornication tormented me day and night.  I was on the brink of losing my mind but God stepped in in the nick of time and freed me.  After that experience I realized how much of a blessing it is to have a “right” mind.  Don’t allow the devil the use soul ties to bring forth your demise.


Q.    The different categories of lust
A.     Lust is defined by as “a passionate or overmastering desire or craving” and “to have a yearning or desire; have a strong or excessive craving”.  So some one can have a lust for money, power, attention, etc.  Lust doesn’t always mean sexually.  As far as categories, there are none.

Q.     Christians listening to worldly R & B music
A.      I believe it depends on the lyrics.  You definitely shouldn’t listen to anything that is telling you it’s okay to commit certain sins.  It all comes down to having a spirit of discernment.  Once you hear a song, you should instantly know if it’s “enticing” your flesh.  And if it is, stop listening to it.

Why is sexual sin so “difficult” for people to stop?

Sex is everywhere! The world wants us to think that it’s not a big deal. The enemy uses the media to show us that sex is supposed to be “for everyone” even if unmarried. Satan is still using the same trick that he used in the Garden of Eden. He tells us that God is withholding something good from us and in actuality all God is trying to do is protect us. Everything that God does is for our good.
Fornication is a sin that appeases the flesh. It’s like marijuana, it temporary takes away the problems that you are facing, but once the act is over, the problems are still there. People use sex as a method to get rid of stress, to feel like some one desires them, because they’re bored, to prove a point, to show their manhood or womanhood, because of peer pressure, the list goes on. Fornication is a deadly sin but Satan wants people to believe “its not that serious”. Sounds just like the Garden of Eden huh?


Q.     A list of of material or books to order or study with church youth on these topics or even buy for them to read on their own, we did true love waits with them and had study and spoken on lust topics but wanted to know if you guys know of more resources
A.      I had a give away a few months ago. I gave away “Every Man’s Battle” by Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker, and Mike Yorkey. It also includes a workbook. For the ladies, “No Sex in the City” by Lindsey Nicole Isham. Try those and let me know how it turns out!
Q.     How to become stronger while waiting on the LORD to bring you a husband/wife. Its hard for us, especially if youre older and have been out in the world for a while.
A.     Keep yourself busy. Study the word of God. Allow God to be that husband. Let him fill in the void. To be honest, not every one will marry. That’s the reality of things. So it’s best to look to God as the source for EVERYTHING you need. Tell Him “I will love you God, even if I never get married.